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The (New) Working Mom's Guide to Breast Pumping Made Tolerable

During the first few weeks with my new baby, I had a hard time understanding moms who said that they actually enjoyed breastfeeding.

During the first few weeks with my new baby, I had a hard time understanding moms who said that they actually enjoyed breastfeeding. I felt like it was all I ever did, and it took a little practice to become confident that things were going smoothly. But eventually, nursing became a relaxing, quiet time that I actually looked forward to. Plus, there's nothing more satisfying than watching your baby thrive and being able to take responsibility for his growth.

Pumping, however, is a whole other story. It's time-consuming, uncomfortable, and just a tad bit humiliating. But if you're planning on returning to work and want to continue breastfeeding your baby, pumping at the office is a necessary evil. Here are the tricks and tips that I've found make the process just a bit more bearable.

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Working Women Make Good Moms, Too

Moms who go back to the daily grind before their kids turn three won't see their children doing worse in terms of academics and behavior, according to a review of research spanning 50 years.

Moms who go back to the daily grind before their kids turn three won't see their children doing worse in terms of academics and behavior, according to a review of research spanning 50 years. That's great to hear, because it's one less thing mothers have to worry about when they return to work; their children will turn out fine, and maybe do even better in some cases. In fact, children of working moms who return to work before they are three years of age were rated by their teachers as higher achievers than their peers.

The results of these findings disprove the belief that a woman has to choose between a corner office and a happy home life, and I'm sure these CEO moms will be relieved to hear that. Actually, it seems like most of them already know that. "If you can compartmentalize, you can focus," Yahoo CEO Carol Bartz tells the WSJ about raising kids and juggling work. "You plan not to have guilt."

 

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Single Young Ladies Beat Men to the Punch Salary-Wise

All the single ladies, all the single ladies .

All the single ladies, all the single ladies . . . make more than men? Wages of single, childless women between the ages of 22 to 30 trumps men in the same age range, reports the Wall Street Journal and experts are predicting this to continue. This phenomenon is mainly brought about by the higher numbers of women attending college, leading to jobs with more earning potential. Around 32.7 percent of females aged 25 to 35 between 2006 and 2008 completed their undergraduate studies, according to the Census. This compares with 25.8 percent of men with bachelor's degrees.

But wait, hold on — the bad news is that women who have children are more likely to see their salaries dip or remain stagnant. Also, women still earn less than their male peers holding similar degrees. Not to worry, I think it's just a matter of time before women start catching up. So men, you don't have to put a ring on it, because we can buy our own!

 

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Fired Wall Street VP Says She Was Placed on "Mommy Track"

Movies and TV shows featuring busy and glamorous working moms in high-powered jobs may make us feel like we can have it all.

Movies and TV shows featuring busy and glamorous working moms in high-powered jobs may make us feel like we can have it all. But according to Charlotte Hanna, a former VP at Goldman Sachs, she had to forfeit her career path once she had kids.

Hanna, who sued the company for discrimination last week, was pretty high up at Goldman Sachs before she became a mother, and her career seemed to be advancing rapidly. After her first maternity leave, when she chose to come back in a part-time role, Hanna says she felt like she was placed on a “mommy track,” where promotions and raises were no longer an option. She claims she was demoted, left out of meetings and operations, and generally made to feel unwanted. When she took a second maternity leave in 2008, she was told two weeks before returning to work that her position had been eliminated.

Apparently, some women on Wall Street feel that Hanna did this to herself — it’s common knowledge, they say, that you have to wait until later in life to have kids in order to preserve your career. Others say Hanna chose the "mommy track" willingly, and that everyone on Wall Street knows that’s the kiss of death.

What do you think? Does she have a case, or was she responsible for ruining her own career?

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Working Moms Offered $11,000 Less Than Non-Mothers

We’re all (unfortunately) quite aware by now of the gender gap that exists in the American workplace.

We’re all (unfortunately) quite aware by now of the gender gap that exists in the American workplace. But did you know there are also some pretty serious discrepancies among women? A new study comparing mothers to non-mothers in the workplace has found that working moms are at a major disadvantage.

The study compared the perceptions of two nearly identical resumes. The only real difference? One listed "member of the PTA" as an activity, while the other listed "fundraiser for the neighborhood association." To see what researchers found, read more

Work-Life Balance

How Do You Balance a Career and Kids?

I had a long chat with my girlfriend yesterday, and between talking about our love lives and the latest we ventured into the realm of her budding career.

I had a long chat with my girlfriend yesterday, and between talking about our love lives and the latest we ventured into the realm of her budding career. She's one smart cookie and has been working her way up at a law firm for a few years, and now she's facing the possibility of law school which comes with some obstacles. Her worries don't have to do with getting into a good school or dealing with tedious applications; instead she's wondering if becoming a lawyer would mesh with her vision of having a family in the next five or so years.

Most graduate programs like to see that you've had some work experience before going back to school, so if you follow their recommendations that means you don't go back until your mid to late twenties. Obviously, modern medicine has allowed women to have kids later and that's conducive to our desire to have it all. But, what if you want to start having kids in your early thirties?

The problem my girlfriend is facing isn't an uncommon one — graduate school isn't cheap, and she wants to know that she'll be able to use her degree. There are so many women out there that make it work with successful careers and full families, and I have serious admiration for them. What would you do if you were my girlfriend — go to school and try to make the best of a work-life balance, or try out another career path that might be more kid friendly?

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