30 Things All Women Should Have in Their Arsenal Before 30
Turning 30 is a big milestone because you finally feel like a real adult instead of playing one in your early 20s. Here are some things you probably have accomplished in your 20s:
- Eyeliner and mascara that doesn't smudge.
- A bad relationship that will make you treasure the good ones.
- The experience of negotiating a raise or asking for a promotion. Because you deserve it.
- A love for yourself — flaws and all.
- A good mattress.
- Enough self-respect to not put up with an unhealthy relationship and friendship.
- A home that looks lived in and not like a rental. Which includes a piece of furniture you splurged on that's not from Ikea and an original piece of art you love.
- One international trip experience that took you to another continent.
- Wild stories of past shenanigans that you love reminiscing over with your friends. And zero urge to relive it all.
- A résumé and LinkedIn profile that you had to struggle to shrink.
- Six months of living expenses in your emergency fund and a robust 401(k).
- A friend that makes you laugh, lends an understanding ear when you need a shoulder to cry on, and tells you things you need (and not want) to hear.
- Forgiveness and letting go of past hurts and grudges. Life's too short for that.
- And the realization that forgiving doesn't mean accepting that it was OK. Forgiving means accepting the fact it happened.
- Go-to recipes for key occasions, from a fancy dinner party to leftovers night.
- A backup system for your important documents and photos.
- Something you can take care of, be it a plant or a pet (or maybe even a baby!).
- The ability to enjoy things alone, whether it be a trip, a dinner out, or a show.
- A coffee machine so you stop wasting your money at Starbucks.
- A good skin care routine, which includes applying sunscreen.
- The confidence to go without makeup, wear a bikini, and have an opinion.
- A sewing kit and a set of tools that you've actually used.
- A reliable dry cleaner and a tailor.
- A chic outfit that you can transition from work to play — not to mention, a high-quality bag or purse to bring to work every day.
- A safe place for you to relieve your stress and recharge — be it your reading nook or yoga studio.
- The resolve and discipline to kick at least one bad habit. Bye-bye, soda and Cheetos.
- The satisfaction with what you have and not worrying about if you're missing out on something better and newer.
- An exercise routine beyond cleaning your home or commuting to work.
- A credit card that you pay off in full every month.
- The realization that life just gets better.
— Additional reporting by Annie Gabillet