- A family affair: When my sister got married years ago, we enlisted the whole family to make things manageable. Our grandparents, who owned an amazing barbecue restaurant, catered the reception in a beautiful old barn. Our aunt, a librarian by day, pastry chef by night, baked the most amazing, beautiful almond cake, plus almond cookies as favors.
- Take over your fave restaurant: Two of my favorite weddings ever took place in the couples’ favorite restaurants. My oldest sister had a small, intimate ceremony on the patio of the restaurant, followed by a delicious sit-down meal in the cozy, candle-lit dining room. A couple of close friends had a low-key ceremony at city hall, followed the next day by a big celebration, complete with wood-fired pizzas and specialty cocktails, in their favorite spot. It’s more affordable than you might think, and you’ll often just pay a flat fee for both the venue and the food.
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- A Michelin-starred meal for less: My own wedding was held at a beautiful old mansion in wine country that also just so happened to be a Michelin-starred restaurant. We had a three-course, sit-down meal for around $50 per person, way less than the average $100 or more a head that most sit-down dinners cost.
- Custom carbo-loading: My college roommate’s wedding down in sunny Southern California featured a build-your-own-pasta buffet catered by a local restaurant. Each guest chose exactly what type of meat, fish, veggies, or sauce he or she wanted, and the chefs tossed together a customized pasta dish while we waited. It was just as easy and much more delicious and fun than a traditional buffet, and it only set the couple back about $10 per person.
- A Kentucky backyard BBQ: One childhood friend tied the knot in his bride-to-be’s family’s lush, green backyard in Kentucky. They set up tents and built all the décor themselves, and in keeping with the casual, Southern vibe, their wedding dinner was catered by a local barbecue joint. The result was finger-lickin’ good, laid-back, and budget-friendly.
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